Preparing for a Reading

Most of the time the reason for booking a reading in the first place is inner mayhem. But in my experience as a reader, the best readings come when both the reader and the querent have both done a little prepping.  A reading that is rushed, or not properly planned or prepared for will rarely go well.

 Getting a reading can be intimidating, especially if you've never received one before.  The following are suggestions I have to help you the client be prepared, comfortable and confident going into your reading.

Every reader does things a little bit different.  For those who have experience in receiving readings please do go through the following list- as I will not have the same methods or techniques as your previous readers.  Some of the suggestions may not apply based on how you have chosen to receive your reading.  There will be less preparation for those who have purchased a recorded reading vs one that is live. 


Meditate

In our fast-paced lives, our minds are constantly buzzing with thoughts, to-dos, and sensory input. This mental chatter can cloud our intuition and affect our ability to interpret the Tarot cards effectively. Whether you a having live reading or receiving a prerecorded a simple five to ten-minute meditation session can help silence this chatter and create a calm mental space.  The following or practical tips to try before your reading. 

  1. Simple breathing exercises.  Taking a few deep slow breaths can help to center mind and body.
  2. Create a calm and comfortable environment. Lighting a candle or incense, dimming the lights, or playing soothing music can all help to create a calming atmosphere conducive to meditation.
  3. Try guided meditations. If you’re new to meditation, guided meditations can be a great place to start. There are various online resources offering free guided meditations
  4. Dont rush. Remember, meditation is not a race. It’s okay if you can only meditate for a few minutes at first. With time, your ability to maintain focus will naturally increase.

 

Journal

There are many benefits of journaling. Writing down your thoughts and your feelings can help to bring clarity on what answers you are seeking.  From my experience -journaling before a reading allowed for me to stay grounded and organized with my thoughts and feelings.  I felt less overwhelmed and was able to stay on track and work through each question I was seeking answers for. Two good questions to start with are:

  1. What am I anxious about?
  2. What am I upset about — and with whom?

Choosing the right Tarot Deck

Choosing the right deck can be a powerful and fulfilling part of doing a Tarot card reading! Why does it matter which deck? Each deck is unique, designed and handcrafted by a passionate Tarot expert and artist.  You should pick a deck that resonates with you, and aligns with your needs from your reading.  Check out my page on the Tarot and Oracles decks to select the right deck for your reading! Decks and Readings

Prepare your Questions

If you ask the right questions of the tarot, miraculous things can happen and your experience will be that much more richer and deeper. Having clear questions in mind can help guide the session and maximize your time. When preparing your questions please keep in mind what I am able to ethicly answer for you. Please see my code of ethics for further inquiry about what I can answer for you. Code of Ethics

Remember, the key to a successful tarot reading lies not in the cards themselves, but in the questions you bring to them. Approach each reading with openness and a willingness to explore the mysteries that lie within.

A good place to start when formulating your questions is by asking

  • who?
  • what?
  • where?
  • when?
  • why 
  • how?

Don’t know what to ask of the cards? Feel free to contact me and ask for help to create questions that will void best results!

Review and Respect the Readers Policies

I take my job as a Tarot reader seriously and professionally.  I aim to provide each client with a reading that is aligned to their wants and needs.  I do however have policies that may prevent me from being able to provide you with what you are seeking.  Please review my code of ethics and policies for my different services. Code of Ethics

Know your Tech and have the right equipment prepared

Tarot readings are extremely intimate experiences. We get the most out of them when we are able to be fully present and by limiting as many distractions as possible. Here are a few suggestions and tips to consider before your tarot reading.

  • Use comfortable earbuds/headphones. A good quality headset that helps reduce echo and background noises will make you feel more present on the call.

  • If you're new to working with Zoom, download it a few days beforehand and test it out with a friend.  YouTube is also a great resource if you are learning how to use a new application.

  • Make sure your laptop/tablet/phone are charged, or nearby a plug and charging cable.  
  • it's a great idea to bring a notebook filled out with pre-prepared questions, along with a pen for jotting notes down. Clients that opt for a live reading, it is essential that you take notes to capture the details of the experience. This will enable you to remember the specifics of the online reading, helping you better understand and act on the messages conveyed and their potential outcomes for your life.  I do suggest that you voice record the session Incase you want to go back and review.

Go in with an Open mind

Approach the reading with an open mind and heart, ready to receive the insights and guidance that the tarot cards have to offer. It can be easy to place a lot of unrealistic expectations and false hopes in the cards. It is important not to get too caught up and focused on what the cards say, and to only take what resonates with you.  

Your reading can enhance your awareness in certain aspects of your life, highlight paths and outcomes that you may not have thought possible, help prevent mistakes, and give you deeper insight into things surrounding you that may be holding you back — but only if you are willing to receive this guidance with an open heart and an open mind.

 

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